Each individual will go through the 7 Stages of Process in their therapeutic journey.
1) Rigidity and Externalisation – Little sense of responsibility or emotional awareness. Rare to see in session because someone at this stage is unlikely to come to therapy.
2) Slight Loosening and Limited Awareness – Emotions are still distant and experience is evaluated through external expectations.
3) Emerging Self-Reference – May notice discrepancies between how they view themselves and what they feel. Might see changes in self-esteem, identity, and authenticity.
4) Greater Emotional Awareness and Acceptance – Acceptance of inner experience even when uncomfortable.
5) Ownership and Responsibility – Feelings belong to the self rather than imposed from the outside. Clearer sense of internal direction and emotional experiences are trusted more.
6) Deep Emotional Experiencing – Feeling in the present moment. Moments can be transformative and integrative.
7) Integration and Flow – Emotional awareness and self-acceptance are well integrated. Change is natural rather than requiring deliberate effort. Experiences self as a process rather than a fixed identity.
The 6 Necessary and Sufficient Conditions Needed for Therapeutic Change
1) Therapist – Client Psychological Contact – a relationship between client and therapist in which each person’s perception of the other is important.
2) Client Incongruence – The client’s experience and their awareness are incongruent with each other. There is a lack of alignment between the real self and the ideal self.
3) Therapist Congruence – The therapist is genuine in their involvement in the therapeutic relationship, They’re not ‘acting’ or faking. They can draw on their own experiences (self-disclosure) to facilitate the relationship.
4) Therapist Unconditional Positive Regard – The therapist accepts the client. There is no judgement, approval or disapproval.
5) Therapist Empathic Understanding – The therapist has an empathic understanding of the client’s internal frame of reference. They understand the client from the client’s point of view.
6) Client Perception – The client perceives, at least a bit, the unconditional positive regard and empathic understanding of the therapist.
N.B. Conditions 3, 4 and 5 are considered the Core Conditions necessary for a therapist to display.
